Summertime can be the most joyous and memory-making time of the year with the family. Yet it can also create the most madness- as scheduling, scheduling blunders and just the idea of schedules in general can be mind numbing.
Whether you are a planner or not, in the summer you should be! Too much can go wrong. Unless of course you live in Montana and have no desire to travel. I sorta envy that thought. Yet, I'm good with not having that thought too. Having a lot to do can be exciting and keep summer interesting (and free of boredom for little people), but it can sometimes take its mental toll on the adult world. Planning in some down time might be just what is needed to maintain the sanity necessary to endure the insanity.
Whatever your plans are for the summer, take a moment to ask yourself- "Is it supposed to be crazy? Is this unavoidable? Can we build in some quiet and relaxed time?" There is a reason that so many long for the serenity of autumn. It is not because the summer does not bring great joy, but rather that the fall represents what we need just a taste of in the summer- a deep breath, a parked car, and maybe some guilt-free non-kid time!
Happy summer! :)
Bryon Remo, M.Ed., LMFT
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